My friend recently faced troubled marriage . We discuss about the pros and cons of marriage. I write out the results of the discussions.
The advantages of marriage:
1 - Have a sense of belonging to the relative safety of the emotional needs
2 - Physiological needs are relatively safe,
3 - Part time, 1 +1 is greater than 2, the sharing of possible economic
4 - Responsibility, personal responsibility and obligation to have to take care of you and cook for you. When you sick, she will take care of you.
5 - Share the pressure, such as temporary unemployment or someone to share the housework.
6 - You will not be too lonely, can be your old partners.
7 - Have your own baby.
The disadvantages of marriage:
1 - Freedom.
2 - Excessive responsibilities, including tolerance and repression.
3 - Numbness and freshness of DINK family.
In my opinion, marriage is the important matter of life. Be sure to do before you decide.